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Interview with Natali

‘Natali’ is the pen name she gave to herself when she found her power in living an alternative lifestyle and decided to write about it, “d20domme” is who she is when she is in motion during that lifestyle while presenting, podcasting, or running a demos at events. Her style of ‘kink’ is like rolling a 20-sided die. It’s spontaneous, tactile, theatrical, physical, usually loud, and erotically intimate depending on who you are.


She is kinky, jet-setting, plus size, pint-height, polyandrous, POC, Femdom. She knows what she wants and will use her craft in mindfuckery and persuasive tongue to get it. In her evolution into her 24/7 Female lead Relation lifestyle, she often equates her 15+ year journey into kink as ‘falling down the rabbit hole’ and constantly enjoys teaching and being taught new things among kinksters.


She can often be found writing on her blog or in features on kinky websites, chatting away on podcasts, teaching classes, demos, or presenting as an educator locally in Washington, DC, New York, NY, Portland, OR, California, and across the pond around Europe.


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Viewer Questions

  • Kevin from Ohio

    I’m really having reservations about hitting my Girlfriend. She is actively asking me to do it, but every time I even think about it I get sick to my stomach. I’ve always been taught not to hit people and whenever it comes up, I hear that lesson echoing in my head. How can I get past this? Should I even try?

  • Terry from Colorado


    What are some of the best covert public play scenes you all have done? Asking for a friend 🙂

  • Julia from Michigan


    A very long time ago, I was kinky, but then I had a bad experience and haven’t wanted to do it for a long time. I’m trying to get back into it, but I’m having a hard time finding that spark. How can I rekindle my love of kink?

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